#2 - Present & Connected: Marriage and Ministry ft. Dr. John Radford


As a pastor or ministry leader, you’re usually the one offering marriage or relationship advice. But, how are you doing in your own marriage or intimate relationships? Who are you going to when you need wisdom and encouragement?

In our second episode of the BCMB Pastor to Pastor Podcast, Conference Minister, Rob Thiessen, continues to dig in with Dr. John Radford in this insightful and timely conversation about marriage and ministry.

In his 16 years serving with Oasis Ministries as a psychologist and conflict consultant, Dr. Radford has had the opportunity to speak with nearly 500 ministry couples, many of whom were going through dry and difficult seasons in their marriage and ministry. His insights on boundaries, expectations, and vulnerability will help you create greater intimacy and openness in your marriage.

You’ll learn:

  • Why pastors often default to the expectations and demands of others.
  • How to develop the critical skill of immediacy (or “being present”) with your family at the end of the day.
  • How you and your pastoral staff team can grow in understanding the unique challenges your spouses face.
  • And, the signs you need to get help and who you can reach out to.

By inviting others and your spouse into your world, you can thrive in ministry for the long haul. Have the courage to be fully yourself in your marriage and close relationships.


As a pastor or ministry leader, you’re usually the one offering marriage or relationship advice. But, how are you doing in your own marriage or intimate relationships? Who are you going to when you need wisdom and encouragement? In our second episode of the BCMB Pastor to Pastor Podcast, Conference Minister, Rob Thiessen, continues to dig in with Dr. John Radford in this insightful and timely conversation about marriage and ministry. In his 16 years serving with Oasis Ministries as a psychologist and conflict consultant, Dr. Radford has had the opportunity to speak with nearly 500 ministry couples, many of whom were going through dry and difficult seasons in their marriage and ministry. His insights on boundaries, expectations, and vulnerability will help you create greater intimacy and openness in your marriage. You’ll learn:
  • Why pastors often default to the expectations and demands of others.
  • How to develop the critical skill of immediacy (or “being present”) with your family at the end of the day.
  • How you and your pastoral staff team can grow in understanding the unique challenges your spouses face.
  • And, the signs you need to get help and who you can reach out to.
By inviting others and your spouse into your world, you can thrive in ministry for the long haul. Have the courage to be fully yourself in your marriage and close relationships.